Weddings that feel unapologetically you.
Second weddings, mid-life weddings and blending families.
I’m a wedding celebrant based in Warwickshire, creating bold, personal wedding ceremonies across the Cotswolds and the Midlands.
If you’re looking for a celebrant-led wedding that feels real, grounded and fully yours, you’re in the right place.
Most couples don’t come to me because they want something traditional. They come because they’ve seen what that looks like, and it doesn’t quite fit.
I work with couples who’ve lived a bit. That might be a second wedding, a later-in-life wedding, a blended family, a vow renewal, or a first wedding that just doesn’t feel like it should follow a template.
However you got here, here you are.
A wedding isn’t a performance, it’s not something to ‘get through’ before the prosecco pops. It’s the point where you stand up in front of the people who matter most and say, “This is us. We choose this. We’re in.”
I don’t do fairy tales. I do real joy.
Choose your ceremony
Three ways to do it. Same ceremony thinking in the centre of each one.
The difference is how much personalisation, planning and flexibility you want in the bits that sit around it.
The main event
The full celebrant experience, from vows, to rehearsal to the big moment itself.
Best for: couples who want to be involved in the detail and know exactly how everything will come together before the day.
£995
The ceremony
A brilliant ceremony without loads of extra planning around it.
Best for: couples who want something personal, joyful and properly done, but don’t need all the extra ceremony support.
£750
Properly yours
When you want full on personalisation and flexibility in all areas of your ceremony.
Best for: couples who want the highest level of personalisation, flexibility and control over how the ceremony looks, feels and happens.
£1250
In front of everyone
Yes, it’s romantic. But it’s also bigger than that.
It’s the story of you as a couple and the secret sauce at the centre of what makes you work. The people who love you seeing exactly why you work.
What they said that made you laugh so hard you snorted, the first proper row and how you found your way back from it, the ridiculous in-jokes your friends want to hear, the moment you realised this was actually it.
That’s the good stuff.
Because a wedding ceremony shouldn’t feel like theatre. It should feel recognisable. Like the two of you, just with all your favourite people around you to witness it.
You walk in as one version of yourselves. You walk out heard, celebrated and excited for what’s next.
If you want dry ice and a script you could swap with the wedding next door, there are plenty of other options.
If you want something that sounds like you, feels like you, and properly connects with the people who know you best, we’ll get on brilliantly.
A wedding ceremony shouldn’t
feel like the admin before the party.
It should feel like the point of the whole thing.
Can a celebrant legally marry us?
In England, celebrants can’t legally marry you - the legal paperwork has to be done separately by a registrar.
For most couples, that’s a quick, relatively cheap, no-frills appointment with your local Register Office, done days, weeks or even months before or after the wedding celebration.
And that completely frees up the ceremony.
There’s no prescribed wording. No venue restrictions. No legal language interrupting the flow or dictating how it has to be done.
Without the formalities hanging over it, you can relax into it far more. You’ll know the person leading the ceremony (hopefully me), you’re not worrying about getting the legal phrasing right, or standing in the right place at the right time, and because we’ve been working together for a while, you know what’s happening next.
And that changes the energy completely.
This becomes the part that feels like you – not stiff, not scripted, not squeezed into a format that doesn’t quite fit.
Still not sure if you want a registrar or a celebrant for your wedding ceremony? Have a look at this guide…
How it feels on the day.
It feels like everyone’s properly there.
There’s laughter. There’s emotion. There’s a bit of theatre (but never performance for the sake of it).
It feels relaxed. Present. Like people aren’t worrying about getting the words right or standing in the right place. They’re just here for you.
Most of all, it should feel like however you want it to feel.
Big and bold.
Quiet and steady.
Full of in-jokes.
Full of tears.
A bit chaotic. Completely calm.
And when you walk back down the aisle – or across the grass, or through the meadow – it feels like something brilliant just happened.
Not staged. Not borrowed.
Yours.
How this comes together
You tell me what this moment means and I listen properly.
We spend real time on the stories, the reasons and the bits that matter most.
I shape it carefully using structure, rhythm and words that feel like you.
You see it. We tweak it. We tighten it until it feels right.
On the day, I steady the space so you can simply be in it.
If this feels like your corner of the wedding world, let’s chat.
Drop me a message
I offer everyone a free 30 minute chat - you can ask any questions and see if you think I could be the celebrant for you.
Fill in the form, or give me a call / ping me a message on WhatsApp 07799848074, or send me an email becky@beckymcelebrant.com.
Whatever works for you.